Communication Tips

One of the hardest parts of Alzheimer’s disease is the effect that it can have on our relationships. When a loved one loses their ability to express themselves, it becomes essential that their caretakers adapt to further their understanding/communicative skills. Simple things such as making eye contact and smiling can make a very big difference in how information is received. Using smaller sentences, and avoiding words like “remember”, can be very helpful. There are lots of things to consider that can make a very big difference in the lives of caretakers and patients. If something is not effective, consider trying another approach.

This article provides an excellent list of effective communicative tools to considering putting into practice when speaking with an Alzheimer’s patient. These methods include tips for the most efficient body language, and more considerate word choices. Something as simple as speaking on level with a person, not just an Alzheimer’s patient, can make a very big difference in how the words that you say are taken. A very good example given on the power of phrasing in a positive way is in saying “let’s go here”, instead of “don’t go there”. Validation of feelings is very, very important in effective communication. Let your affected loved one see that you care, help them to feel understood. It can be very difficult for an Alzheimer’s patient to express themselves clearly, this cannot be changed. What can be changed is a caretaker’s method of communication.

• Turn negatives into positives. For example say “Let’s go here” instead of “Don’t go there”. Be inclusive and don’t talking down to them as if they were a child. Respect the fact that they are an adult, and treat them as such.
• Do not argue with them. It gets you nowhere. Instead, validate their feelings, by saying” I see that you are angry (sad, upset, etc…). It lets them know that they are not alone and then redirect them into another thought. For example “It sounds like you miss your mother (husband, father, etc…). You love them very much, don’t you? Tell me about the time…” Then ask for one of their favorite stories about that person).
• Tell them what you are going to do before you do it. Particularly if you are going to touch them. They need to know what is coming first so that they don’t think that you are grabbing them.

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