The Diagnosis

The story of Carol and Bob Blackwell, and Mr. Blackwell’s sudden diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease. Their confusion, heartbreak, and coming to grips with reality is told from the perspective of Carol Blackwell and also written by her. Their story is very encouraging, as they have found themselves medical and emotional support in the Alzheimer’s community.

"Dr. Blackwell, the test results are back. You did very poorly on them—not at all what would be expected from someone with your education. You have dementia and it is probably Alzheimer’s, based on your family history. There is no cure for Alzheimer’s.

We will try some medicine, but it may or may not work. You won’t be able to work anymore…maybe you could volunteer somewhere. You should go home and put your affairs in order. Here is a sheet on the Alzheimer’s Association. You may want to call them. You might want to consider a clinical trial. We will see you in 6 months."

Our world just ended. That was my first thought on hearing my husband’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s.

It really wasn’t a surprise, as the Drs had ruled out everything else through a variety of tests. It was still a shock. How could he have Alzheimer’s? He was barely 64. His mother was 77 when she was diagnosed. How could this be happening?

We rode home in silence, both of us trying to decide how to tell our children and what to do next.

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